Hello, I posted the other day about my stbex finally admitting to being with his new girlfriend. Its a complex situation in that they already living together. He's told everyone that they are just friends and she was doing him a favour. We broke up around Xmas, tried for a month and we finally threw in the towel at the end if January. She has been on the scence since some time last year...
Background is, she is his ex from around 20 years ago. We were together for 14 years and married for 12 and have two children under 10.
He is making out that this is recent and feelings have developed - how cliché!!
They aren't planning to tell the children yet, he currently has them at his parents when its his weekends.
I just feel sick, I can't sleep, I'm so angry. I knew, but has denied everything until now. He picked the week before our sons bday to tell me, but this is him a over.
I dont want him back, hes a controlling arse, but hes now living his best life and gets to play Disney Dad, once a fortnight.
He even messaged a joint friend last night, about his new relationship as hes worried people will judge - well guess what they do!! Why, just why does he feel the need to do this?? Why can't he get on with his own life and his new friends and allow me my space 😒
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Wannabegreenfingers · 30/08/2020 09:10
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