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When did you know you were doing the right thing

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Tearsforyears · 30/08/2020 01:31

In ending the relationship? Kids involved and I keep having small niggle doubts that I’m making the biggest mistake of my life. When will I know I’m not or how will I know.

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SissyLongStockings · 30/08/2020 02:03

My mum always use to say if in doubt- don't.

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Iloveme30 · 30/08/2020 10:02

If you have come this far in your mind and are prepared to follow through then you are doing the right thing .
Kids are resilient and would prefer to come from a broken home than live in one .
When you know you know ...
Have faith and be brave life is too short x

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Louise000000 · 30/08/2020 23:42

I had many doubts about leaving my marriage too but as time has gone on, it's more and more clear in my mind that it was the right decision. I feared I'd end it and miss him, end it and realise I'd made the worst mistake of my life, but Im so free and happy now it's really good. I'm almost a year on now