DH tonight is tired,grumpy and evening out didn’t go to plan. He’s got a long drive tomorrow to take his DC back to his mums after having him for most of 6 weeks. His DC and my DC were being a bit loud and he then moaned that he had a long drive and very early start and could I tell my DC to be quiet. I reacted and said it wasn’t just my DC making the noise. Think preteen excited boys. He snapped at me so I’ve taken myself into spare room to sleep because I don’t think I deserved to be snapped at. He has gone to sleep like nothing has happened.
How do you all deal with grumpy DPs. this is second marriage for both of us, my first marriage was full of abuse so I know this isn’t that. But because of how my first marriage was I panic when it’s not always roses and automatically think it’s going to end or go into flight mode ready to pack bags and leave.
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How do you deal with OH when they get grumpy
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peonyfairy03 · 28/08/2020 23:11
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