I could fill many pages with backstory and as a reader I would find that painful to go through so I'll try to get to the point quickly.
My daughter is 8 years old and she spends 4 nights with me, then 4 nights with her dad. When she comes back from her dad's her face is dirty, her hair is lank and smells and she's wearing old clothes which are far too small and covered in dog hair.
We've been apart since she was a year old. In all this time I have fought with myself over the difference in parenting, but I can't take it up with him as he is explosive when criticised.
The last couple of times I told my daughter she needed to keep on top of her hygiene but I don't want to do that any more as it's not her fault.
Should I grow balls and confront him (without her there) or am I over reacting? I hate that she goes to school looking like this. I've bought her training bras as she's 'showing' and nice clothes that fit but I never seem to see them on her. I am worried she will be ostracized at school and she's already struggling there.
How far should I approach this?
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Ex not taking care of daughter properly
Boomerwang · 26/08/2020 04:35
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