I posted a few times this year about the sorry state of my relationship. We got married a year ago, I desperately wanted to postpone as I was dealing with multiple bereavements but he said he would leave me if I didn't go through with it.
I finally ended the marriage yesterday. Its been a long time coming mostly because I keep trying to be happy so I didn't t have to hurt him.
It finally clicked that if I'm living my life for someone elses happiness, what's the point in anything.
Anyway, everything feels strange and pretty rubbish right now, questioning whether I did the right thing because I can't see a future anymore. My only other long term relationship was with an abusive man, it was hard when we split up but I wholly knew it was the right choice.
I guess a few words of advice might be good, I'm determined this is it now.
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Ended my marriage after a year
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serendipity909 · 24/08/2020 09:49
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