Wwyd in this situation.
Me and partner have been together 7 years and have one child together. DP has always enjoyed video games but always said once we have kids he’d cut down and would only play them once kids are asleep. This happened for the 1st few months but now he spends every second he can on his games. He gets home from work and it’s the first thing he does. I do all the cooking, cleaning and looking after our child and if I ask him to do something it’s always ‘I can’t atm’ because of something he’s doing on the game. I’ve spoken to him about it soooo many times and sometimes he’ll have a night off (I’m talking 2 in the past 6 months) but usually he says that it’s the only time he gets to spend with his friends and he doesn’t want to let them down. I get that he wants to talk to his friends, but I don’t feel that it should be at the cost of his relationship with me and our child.
I’m feeling really frustrated at the moment and really don’t know what to do. I love him and we do have a great relationship, but his gaming is really starting to get me down.
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babblebeee · 22/08/2020 22:45
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