I am considering leaving my husband of 17 years as I can no longer cope with his excessive drinking.
We have 4 children, 3 of whom are old enough to know what is going on and don't want to live with him either. Our youngest son is only 6, he also has autism, so doesn't understand what is going on and isn't in a position to speak up for himself about spending time with his father.
I am totally in the dark as to what to do if we leave. I don't work as I'm a full time carer for my disabled son and another family member. The mortgage for our house is in my husband's name, I don't have any savings or anywhere to go.
Can anyone please advise me if I'd be entitled to any help with housing or benefits?
Also, where do I stand regarding access; my older children don't want to live with their father at all, my worry is our son as he is only 6 and non verbal. I wouldn't feel safe leaving him overnight with my husband, he drinks excessively and wouldn't be aware if our son got up during the night.
Sorry to have rambled on!
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DG1976 · 21/08/2020 11:36
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