been chatting for a week on and off, he has asked to meet, offered to buy me lunch or dinner but said in the invitation to meet in his home town which for me is about an hour an 20 min solid drive - I feel a bit put out being expected to do all the driving - ok he offered to pay but still feel a bit put out somehow - am I being a bit unreasonable? Would really rather meet halfway and split the bill - just wondered what others might think.
Whilst I don't want to overreact, I feel this is a bit of a red flag. I feel it is an easier thing to pay expecting someone else to sit for the best part of 3 hours in a car (assuming no traffic issues)
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PilatesPeach · 20/08/2020 20:18
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