im a married mother of three beautiful girls and pregnent with my fourth, the problem is my husband, ive been with him for 10 years but, im starting to regret everything, i have no life at all and im feeling really stuck, if i say that im leaving he tells me to go on and leave and bring up my kids with no father, almost like blackmail to make me stay, im not alowed a social life, not allowed to go to friends birthday parties and such, or go on a nite out, when i do acheive to get out, he constantly rings me all night and i have no option but to ans my phone, otherwise i get all kinds of accusations thrown at me, he however just goes and does whatever he wants when he wants and his excuse is that he works so he deserves it , and i do nothing so i dont,if i go to the shop and im gone for 10 - 15 mins i get questioned about where i have been and what i was doing, might i stress that i have never had an affair or anything of the sort to not be trusted,he has managed to drive a wedge between me and my family as well to the point where none of them speak to me anymore and i have lost all contact with them, im also 300 miles from home and feel like i have no-one, he calls me fat and ugly all the time, sometimes i feel like i cant go on, he says i have all the timeineed to do things between 9:30 in the morning and 2pm while the kids r at school, the other problem is that my kids r seeing the rows and some violence, and he convinces them to take his side my heart is breaking, am i making a big deal out of nothing?, should i just get on with it?
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im lost and dont know what to do!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
heavenleigh · 04/10/2007 11:44
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