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I just don’t love him(3 Posts)
I feel really terrible about this. I’m married with a beautiful child. My husband is an ok man and an ok dad. He can be a complete asshole at time’s but I guess all men can be.
I just feel like I have fallen completely out of love with him, I feel irritated by him a lot of the time because he can be quite selfish. I don’t enjoy sex with him at all, the thought of it makes me cringe. I can’t stop thinking about divorce, getting my own place with my child. I feel like I would feel so much more happier and I also feel he probably would. I do think he still loves me but I know I annoy him as I say we are so different in many ways. I feel like he would be better and much happier with someone who shares the same views and has the same humour and interest in sex that he does (like I say I have no interest at all and I get annoyed when he constantly gropes me)
I don’t feel happy at all but I feel so guilty writing this. Is me not being happy a good enough reason to leave?
Of course not being happy enough is a good reason to leave! We only get one life, why waste it being unhappy (and groped!!).
Yes, you have good reason to leave. I was in a similar situation with my ex husband. No interest in sex with him. Hated him touching me etc.
However...... meet the right man .......very much interested in sex with my new husband and have been for years now. Can never get enough of him.
By the way, my ex was an asshole and selfish. That’s hardly going to endear you to him is it. Being treated well by a man .......leads to a different dynamic altogether.
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