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damnthisvirusandmarriage Sat 15-Aug-20 20:02:12

So I’ve been separated from STXH since end of May. He was abusive. For many years.

We didn’t sleep in the same bed for even longer due to night shifts and snoring and kids in the bed. I’m happy with that though as can’t seem to stand him.

But I’m so lonely. I’d love for someone to come over and cuddle and chat and like.... stuff.... but my EX lives 5 mins away. Still his house. We share the mortgage. He CONSTANTLY accuses me of meeting people anyway. So why can’t I? Would it make me a bad person if I actually did? I think he is seeing someone else.

I mean, he’s said if I do then he’ll pay me the absolute minimum he can get away with. I’m past caring now tbh.

Thoughts?

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damnthisvirusandmarriage Sat 15-Aug-20 20:02:44

Oh I mean someone come over whom I’ve known for many years by the way. Not a random...

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MobLife Sat 15-Aug-20 20:13:47

He's still trying to control you from afar
You're single and you can do as you please! You don't need his permission, he is not your keeper.

MobLife Sat 15-Aug-20 20:14:43

And even if it was a random so what? Your choice not his

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