So I’ve been NC with her for six years or so. She’s a total narc. Only other relative of mine is also NC with her.
She wrote me a letter a few years ago saying how she thought she had cancer....actually it was a copy of a 6 page letter she sent to friends. In it she wittered on about how she hoped I’d step up to the plate and help with hospital trips, etc. Of course she didn’t have cancer.
Anyway yesterday I had a fb friend request from a husband of a friend of hers. I’ve met this bloke about twice in my life.....I barely know his wife.
My first thought was that she’d died....or is seriously ill this time. But then as a friend pointed out he can message me without being friends. I’ve ignored the request so far, not accepted or declined. I certainly don’t plan to accept.....would it be rude to decline it without any message?
I’m not sure if he’s spying off his own bat, has been asked to spy or if he’s just one of those people who friend requests anyone and everyone he’s ever met?
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NC with mother......think I’ve had a flying monkey FB friend request
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JacobReesMogadishu · 15/08/2020 16:04
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