My DH has totally checked out of our marriage. I spend every night on my own. Sleep separately. Watch TV on my own. I’m so lonely. We’ve been arguing a lot over the last couple of years and he’s now taken to giving me the silent treatment (only ending if I beg and apologise). It’s never ending. We have kids. What do I do? At the moment he won’t even talk to me about us and the marriage. I feel stuck. The silent withdrawal and withdrawal of company drives me to despair. I just want to be with somebody who wants to be with me and who argues “well”. Everybody falls out don’t they in long term marriages but you agree to disagree or say sorry and move on...how do you move on or resolve when there’s no communication? He’s just completely shut me down. Does anyone have any words of wisdom please?
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