Sexting-Role Play

[Lizziemccoo]

Morning!
Long time lurker and see some great advice (&some not so much so lol) so posting a question I have.

Having fun with a new guy and hes suggesting mummy/daddy kink role play. Ive never heard of this...help explain things to me guys please 😬

Ps Ive also posted in the Sex forum 😊

[BertiesLanding]

Why don't you ask him?

[Lizziemccoo]

I did ask him 🙄 He says its just like role play. Looking for advice from people who have done it.

[Sunshineandflipflops]

God, I feel so dull and boring! What happened to enjoying a sexual relationship with someone without it having to involve kinks/fetishes, etc? I know some people like this but from being on here a while, it seems to be that people (men usually) are constantly pushing boundaries and making women feel uncomfortable about just wanting a 'normal' sex life. Maybe it's porn...I don't know.

Sorry op, I have no idea about mummy/daddy role play, other than the fact that I am a mummy so would find that weird in a sexual setting. I like time with my bf being about me being an adult, not a mummy.

Hope someone can help though.

[Stinkbug]

You may as well join up to one of those sext service jobs and get paid for it as he seems hard work.

[namechange12a]

He probably means that you're both exhausted, snap at each other, have missionary sex for 2.7 minutes in the dark and fall asleep.

[itsamadmadworld]

@namechange12a you got more than a minute?? 😂
The mummy/daddy thing sounds weird. I've heard of one or the other pretending to be an authority figure which is a parent or teacher etc but not both. If he's meaning he plays "daddy" and you play "child" or vice versus then basically one of you is dominant and tells the other what to do I guess. Watching some porn may help

[Lifeisconfusing]

Each to there own but I find all this mammy daddy child type roles utterly distasteful and offensive! like maybe they are some underlining issues there.

[Lizziemccoo]

Yeah my gut feeling was it wasnt right for whatever reason.
Thanks guys 😊

[BertiesLanding]

@Lizziemccoo

I did ask him 🙄 He says its just like role play. Looking for advice from people who have done it.

I'm glad you trusted your gut on this. You didn't need our advice; you had the answer.

[SoulofanAggron]

'Oh you naughty girl, come over daddy's knee for a slap' etc maybe.

I did have an ex who got a thrill out of my calling him 'daddy.' I think it's about something taboo having more of a charge.

[ReadyforTakeOff]

It's purely about domination - he wants you to be his little girl and he is the 'big (or probably little) daddy'.

Depends if you like that sort of thing. Very probably as a result of him watching porn..

Is he any good in bed in other ways?

[Oopsiedaisyy]

Google it, it can be a bit BDSM or a very caring nurturing thing. Not into it personally but it many are.

Kinks are fine. As long as you are both into them

[GilbertMarkham]

Eeww, he'll be introducing nappy play next.

Abd "next" is incidentally the approach you should probably take with him.