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Struggling with what he said(2 Posts)
I have NC for this.
Been together for 6 years and been married 2 and half. Have one toddler. I suffer from generalised anxiety disorder, I will admit I have days where I struggle to get out of bed with my anxiety.
So the last few months have been tough, I'm expecting to be made redundant in the next few weeks, my husband has been wfh.
In a rage a week ago he told me he didn't marry me because he loved me, he says he married me for commitment and to help me get better, I feel rubbish now- if I would have known he wasn't marrying me for love I wouldn't have gone through with it. I feel like the last 3 and half years have been a lie! Just struggling with what he said now.
I dont think anyone would meet anyone to make the other person feel better. I think you need to speak to him and get some help with either counselling and or medication.
Also, start job hunting if you are worried about being made redundant.
All the best op xxx
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