Been together 8 years this october, no marriage or children got together when I was 18 (26 now). I have been feeling kind of meh about our relationship this past year, a kind of 'this will be as good as it gets' kinda feeling. This happend when I had a huge crush on a man at work ( nothing happened bit it was a strong connection, he was single and we both new we fancied each other, was working together) I'm no longer there anyway, since then it's got me thinking and analyzing my relationship, I worry I am settling bescuse I'm comfortable?? But the thought of leaving/ splitting up makes me feel upset and hurts/ pain inside and feel like crying. Sometimes feels as though we have not much in common, but I still want it to work jsut I'm beginning to question it all, that I'll never feel those butterflies or excitement/ hot sex from the beginning of a relationship ever again if I stay with him, the future dosnt seem as fun as it used to years ago, when we do things together it feels abit boring and just really comfortable, I still look forward to being with him and we still laugh but makes me wonderi f could be with someone more suitable? Or is this is a case of grass is greener/ don't know what got untill it's gone kinda thing.
I just don't want to think maybe I am falling out of love how do you know?? ...... Maybe someone out there can relate to what I'm feeling ?? Like worrying I night look back in 20 years and could be wasting my life ...I had few other partners before him but was only a few months, I'm not even sure myself what I'm feeling, just needing to write it all down! X
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CoffeeCupz · 10/08/2020 22:39
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