I'll start of by saying I wasn't behaving well when this happened. I was really down about DH being back at work full time. Bad PND which I'm still recovering from and I find the long shifts DH works makes things harder for me to cope with.
I was moaning at DH about how his work doesn't just impact him it impacts me too. He always complains about how much he hates work. I was saying that if he wants a different job then he has to go and look for one. We've been having the same conversation for about 10 years, long before DS and my PND.
I was saying that I was getting down, DH turned to me and said in a really nasty voice "if your life is so horrible and shit then why don't you just fuck off and die". He's never said anything like that to me before but it's really upset me. He knows I was in fact suicidal at the start of the year. We had to go to my sisters to help her move so haven't spoken about it yet but I really feel like he's crossed a line.
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mylittlesandwich · 10/08/2020 20:00
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