Hi all first time righting my own post.
So me and my partner have been together for over a year, both have two children of our own.
We have a very close and i would say good relationship (we do argue now and then) we've been discussing living together next year.
A conversation came up where we were talking about money ect so i questioned how it would be when we lived together and spending on the kid's ( he likes to splash out on his) so i raised the dynamic lf how would we do Christmas ect as we may not have the funds to spend a lot on all of them.
He got shitty about this and turned around and said I'll spend what i want on MY kid's. Now i feel a bit taken aback by this response as i guess i would see it as if we're all living together all the kid's would be treated equally and our security would be taken into account too.
This is my first merged family relationship so am i being unreasonable and expecting too much? I just saw it more as we would be a blended family rather than us and them 🙁
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Was i unreasonable?
Flower8 · 10/08/2020 09:56
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