Please help me not be a selfish idiot and ruin things with him. We’ve been together about 8 months. Didn’t see each other over lockdown so already spent quite a bit of time apart.
He’s had a stressful family situation. Don’t want to say too much about it, feel like it’s not my place to talk about his personal problems. He’s asked for some space to sort his head out and so he can process things properly.
It’s been 2 weeks since I heard from him. I sent a couple of light hearted texts (he said not to stop texting completely), just things I’d seen that I thought would make him smile. He’s read them but not replied.
I feel so sad every time I think about him. I miss talking to him and want to be there for him. But at the same time I want to respect his wishes and give him the space he needs. I’ve been struggling with it a lot the last few days and really want to text and ask him to talk to me. How do I get through this making sure we’re both ok?
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GreyMirror · 09/08/2020 07:19
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