Not really looking for advice just wondered if I´m alone in feeling like this. My husband is working away just for 4 days and I´m home alone with my 9 mo and loving every bit of it
I don´t miss him at all and have hardly even thought about him, when he called last night I just wanted him off the phone, I know this isn´t a good sign for things to come, all my friends fall apart if their OHs are away from home. I am now wondering if I´m better off alone, probably a little extreme but I am so content!
Its not the first time he´s away and I always feel like this, tis very selfish of me really...
Are you on maternity leave at the minute ? I found when I was off work it was a right nuisance a lot of the time when DH came home or at the weekends.
I had this routine all worked out which best suited me and DS but DH had other ideas and it was hard accomodating those when I felt I knew best also I had to show DH some affection as well as DS or he got jealous and I really just wanted to cuddle my ickle wickle baby.
DH has been working away through the week for a few months now, and it seems ok to me: I have my own routine, can do what I want in the evening, have a sandwich for dinner if I like instead of cooking a full meal, lie in the bath for hours without feeling like I'm ignoring him. Bliss. Mind you, I do have to sleep with the light on, and a big iron bar beside the bed in case of burglars. In fact, I can't really sleep much at all without him here.
Not that I don't miss him during waking hours too. More time for MN though
lol! I'm the same suenorth! Even put stair gates on at bottom and top of stairs in hope burglars will be unable to work out how to open them! Always look forward to dh getting back so I can get some kip!