I've been dating someone for a few weeks. He is such a lovely man who I like a lot and I haven't met anyone so kind and thoughtful ever. Last night he came to mine to watch a film and things got a bit heated. We went up to the bedroom but he couldn't get hard enough.
He said that it has been a while since he has been intimate with someone and I could tell he was nervous. It wasn't really that awkward, we just kissed and cuddled but I'm worried that he will never be able to satisfy me.
Do you think it could be something that will get better in time? Having been in a marriage that became sexless because he couldn't perform I would be really gutted if I fell for someone with the same problem. This new man is 39.
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Sex with new man was a disaster
bloomingmad · 06/08/2020 09:53
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