So my ex finished our 5 year relationship about a month ago, he wanted to stay here living as friends but I quickly realised this would not work so asked him to leave. He was surprised said he thought I was going to come up with a solution. I Think he hoping I would beg him not to go.
I have no idea where he is, have had a couple of messages about money, he thinks some money has been paid into my account for him but is not there. I have asked to pick up the rest of his stuff but he is dragging his heels.
Trouble is I am in a foreign country, dont know a soul as only moved here 6 month ago and due to lockdown. I feel tonally lost and lonely I did not expect to move to a foreign country to be dumped. Moving back to the UK is not an option atm. So need to dig deep and get through this.
Just wanted to vent I guess. I am doing the right things joining local social media groups but the days drag by.
My friends all say I am better of without him they all think he is horrible human being in the way he treated me I have also starting finding out some disturbing things in his past. Since the split people have started comeing forward with information. Sorry for the long post but any wise words much appreciated.
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Lonely and sad some kind words please
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Sunnyday1203 · 05/08/2020 09:31
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