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Fiancée commented on my bum getting bigger (32 weeks pregnant)

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kedooo Tue 04-Aug-20 00:49:30

AIBU to be offended by this? My fiancée commented today in a joking way about my bum getting bigger. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and feeling self-conscious about my weight gain and body. I reacted and said that I've never commented on his weight or the size of his belly, this seemed to upset him but to me this is the same thing. Should I have just laughed this off?

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GilbertMarkham Tue 04-Aug-20 00:51:56


If he can give it out, he can take it.

And he's not growing another human so he's in no position to be giving it out anyway.

kedooo Tue 04-Aug-20 23:50:10

@GilbertMarkham, haha, thank you!

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Mumoftwoyoungkids Wed 05-Aug-20 00:11:31

Of course your bum is getting bigger. Your hips are opening out in order to let a human fit through them.

What’s his excuse for being fat?

kedooo Wed 05-Aug-20 00:19:20

Lol, he's actually not fat, just put on a bit of weight during lockdown and it only goes on his stomach, his weight doesn't bother me I just said it to prove a point really and he seemed to take great offence

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