So been married 16 years together 20. Lack of sex has been an issue since about 15 years ago. I've raised this with my husband and very recently said to him this is not right for me it's unfair and if you don't want to solve this please just let me go. No he says, I do love you and do want sex. So time goes on no attempts to try and have sex. We went out today and had a lovely family day. On the way home in the car he is stroking my leg and says it's lovely and gets a bit flirty. So I said maybe tonight your luck may be in? Our four year old does like to sleep in our bed a lot so I made a concerted effort to bribe him into his own bed- fine he was asleep by 8pm. I tell husband this when I go downstairs for a drink. I bath and oil myself with nice body lotion and wait. Half nine comes nothing. Half ten and I'm getting annoyed as I have work in the morning so messaged him saying don't bother I'm going to sleep now
I feel so fucking ugly and rejected
Everytime we discuss this he says he doesn't want to split up but I can't have a shit sex like when I've just turned 40
What the hell now?
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He doesn't want to have sex with me anymore does he?
hopingtobedally · 02/08/2020 23:15
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