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katey2020 · 02/08/2020 15:17

Hi laddie's,one question, I've been on depo injection 💉 for 16 months we have 2 beautiful children under 5 I've tryed every everything else nothing has has worked for me I've tried all pills ,rod,coil nothing agreed with me. This one seems to be okay depo I've put loads of weight on about 3 atone in 16 stone wow ino, no bleeding witch is a bonus but sex drive has fully gone since been on it what would other people think what to don't wont any more kids I've seen saying this for a while now other half still wants more so😒 I've asked Dr about been sterilized 16 months ago he sent me to specialist part the Dr hasent right a report back yet I've chased it up a few times but still nothing I'm 26 year old and my partner is 36 been together 10 years others I tryed I wasn't nice on. What should I do

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namechange12a · 02/08/2020 15:20

Christ you asked to be sterilised at 26! Can't your partner have a vasectomy or use condoms if you're that desperate?

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katey2020 · 02/08/2020 15:20

3 stone in 16 months I meant

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katey2020 · 02/08/2020 15:22

He wont he still wants in I'm the future I didn't won't kids in first place just got caught pregnant and couldn't bear to give them up hapepend on pill twice I new af 19 I didn't won't kids I love our children but I'm happy not to have anymore

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namechange12a · 02/08/2020 15:31

He still wants children and you don't? He has two and is 36 but he wants how many more and with whom? You don't want any so your relationship has a sell by date. Can't he use condoms?

OP a sterilisation is a huge operation with a lot of risks and you don't know how you'll feel in a few years time about it.

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alfrew · 02/08/2020 15:45

I was sterilised at 29 after deciding that 2 children was my limit.

It wasn't a huge deal, no regrets at all and no more worries.

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katey2020 · 02/08/2020 15:46

He comes from a big family as he has 10 brothers and sisters and his mum and dad wer 50 wen there stoped havng kids there were happy so doesn't matter how old I are if your gonna dudge please don't comment please I asked for advice only

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EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 02/08/2020 15:47

Didn't you post this about 3 days ago?

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katey2020 · 02/08/2020 15:49

Different post hun

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