We spent yesterday at my parents house with my brother. Whilst dp was out of the room we started talking about rubbish parking stories - eg when I impaled my car on a bollard and had to get a random bloke to physically lift my little crappy car off it. Bro mentioned a time when dp did pretty bad parking in his block of flats, which is really hard to park in. Everyone laughed and dp walked in just to hear the story. I said ‘have you ever tried to park in there?!’ to brother to stick up for dp. Dp has now been in a grump about it since, saying it was very rude for my family to be laughing behind his back. I said yes it was a bit rude of bro but it’s not about anything important and I stuck up for him. Imo dp just gets hugely oversensitive about small things sometimes and we fight about it. It’s a waste of energy I think as we have much bigger problems that I won’t go into here (life stuff).
We are supposed to be going on holiday with bro in a few days and I was looking forward to it - we are quite skint and have a new baby and have been exhausted and miserable for weeks. now I can see he is going to be upset at bro for the whole time and spoil something we can’t really afford but which we thought we would treat ourselves for as a bit of a light in the darkness as it were.
For background this isn’t a pattern of family behaviour - they aren’t catty, we generally all get along well. If they generally were out of order and this was emblematic of that I could understand but this I just find silly. Aibu? How would you deal with the situation?
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Aibu or is he being overly sensitive?
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Wimbledon1983 · 02/08/2020 11:07
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