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Sugartitties Fri 31-Jul-20 18:06:42

no problem with that but he won’t come to bed, think twice in the last three weeks.

watches porn maybe 3,4 times or more a week.

thoughts?

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AttilaTheMeerkat Fri 31-Jul-20 18:12:58

How long have you two been together?.

Is he all you think you deserve from a relationship?. Many men who have porn addictions have very real problems with intimacy.

I doubt he would be at all forgiving of you if you were watching porn. You do not have to be cool with it either.

MizMoonshine Fri 31-Jul-20 18:13:31

Next time he tries to initiate sex tell him no thank you, whip out your phone and a vibrator and masturbate instead.
When he throws a tantrum, tell him that's how he's making you feel.

user1481840227 Fri 31-Jul-20 18:46:08

When you say he won't come to bed what do you mean?

Do you want to have sex and he is trying to avoid having sex with you or do you want him to go to bed so you can just chat, cuddle and then sleep and instead he's staying up?

Sugartitties Fri 31-Jul-20 19:00:27

been together six years.

we have a shed that’s like a little house, bricks so not your typical garden shed. he works in his hobby in there, stays in there for days and nights, wide awake, barely sleeps.

we last had sex end of june. If I ask him if he’s gone off me says no don’t be silly bla bla but words are cheap.

It’s driven me insane!!

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Sugartitties Fri 31-Jul-20 19:01:28

i bought myself an absolute monster of a dildo m, too big to use in fact. i think i’m going to leave it somewhere for him to see it!

bastard.

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gryffindor1987 Fri 31-Jul-20 23:42:53

Love the dildo comment sugartits 😂😂😂 do it ! Prick as he is bet he will be coming to bed more often then lol xxx

Sugartitties Sat 01-Aug-20 10:23:29

@gryffindor1987 i would but things is it takes two people just to lift it out of my drawer, i could get a crane i suppose grin

he came to bed at six this morning, gave me he hug and started to have a little feel.

it’s gone past that now, who the hell wants a duty or a pity shag

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