Ok so bit of background: bf very very secretive with phone. We had an argument two weeks back. He stayed at his parents. I was Ill that day and got an early night.
Fast forward to today. He asked me to take some photos. I was in the folder and there was a ‘hidden photos’ file I’d never seen before. I guess curiosity got the better of me. I looked. Well, there’s lots of recordings from a site called chatturbate - seems that’s cam girls? These he viewed on the night he stayed at his parents. Some pretty sick stuff. More disturbingly there’s tons of videOs he made of himself masturbating, using a pump, putting something in his penis (metal thing? Pushing it out).
I couldn’t keep this to myself. I’m devastated. I asked him why he made them - was he posting them to someone or sending to the site? I don’t know how it works. He swears blind not. He says he doesn’t know and he doesn’t see the difference between cam
Girls and porn. I have always been clear that if he ever watched a cam girl I’m out. I told him so much today. He thinks I’ve massively over reacted. I’m absolutely gutted.
As soon as I told him he deleted them all - dodgy as anything right - so I can’t go check if he’s posted on the site.
I don’t feel like I want to carry on. My self esteem is low as it is and this feels like the final blow. He knew I had a no no to cam girls and although he didn’t agree he did it anyway. So MN please give it to me straight. If I’m over reacting please tell me and I’ll listen. Thank you xxx
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Am I over reacting ? Cam girl site.
Talkingtothebirds · 31/07/2020 13:25
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