Hi all just need some advise me and my partner have been together for nearly 20 years since we was 13 we due to get married in March 2021 recently I've been having mixed feeling how I feel I do love him but not sure if I'm still in love with him we have 3 children together so need to consider them I've never been one for going out but in last couple of years started going out with the mums from school only a few times a year and he gets face on about it but I've ignored it and still gone don't if going out with them has opened my eyes but I've started to notice he is quiet controlling he comes out with comments when I say about going out to try and change my mind he gets face on when I go see my family as he doesn't get on with them he tolerates them coz he's with me I don't think he trusts me and I don't why coz I've not gave him reason to he did have affair after we had out first daughter and she 13 this year he can be a very Marcy person and my 2 older children have started to notice it as well and feel they have to walk on egg shells he doesn't really do anything with any of our children and gets at them when they come in when we talking like kids do but we not talking about anything important it's like he wants me all to himself all the time and doesn't even like to share me with his kids sorry to go on and on but just needed to get it off my chest
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20 years and due to get married but not sure
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Tomatoe88 · 30/07/2020 15:20
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