I ended my marriage a month ago after emotional and verbal abuse.
After only a month I'm pretty certain he's in a new relationship, or at least seeing someone. He has made it clear he has moved on from me and is happy now. He told me in no uncertain terms.
He has changed his name on Facebook (we double barrelled) removing my name. He changed his status to separated within days.
He requested that we remain friends on Facebook, so he could see any posts I put up about our child, but i am unable to see anything on his wall after the date I ended our marriage. It was his birthday last week, so I know he will have got lots of birthday messages, none of which I can see. I'm not tech savvy enough to know how he might be able to do this, as he's still coming up as a friend in my lists.
Something made me suspicious before we ended it that he was seeing someone else, he became very protective of his phone, always picking it up and putting it down, always face down. And now he is changing history, saying that our marriage has basically been over since March.
Do I ask him about it? He has obviously gone to great lengths to make sure I can't see certain things. I know I have ended our marriage, but with good reason. It is just such a short time to move on, it breaks my heart. Obviously we aren't even formerly seperated yet, let alone divorced. I haven't even had chance to have a proper conversation with a solicitor.
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Is my husband in a new relationship?
JustBeingMoi · 28/07/2020 07:57
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