Hey mums,
I found out I was pregnant mid 2019 with my BF. We decided to move to his parents as it seemed like the best move for support etc. My partner was also battling with depression so we thought it would be best if we moved in with his parents who could help support us through his depression and my pregnancy. We are both in our early 20’s. When I fell pregnant my whole family disowned me, I had no one other than my BF and his family. My boyfriend wasn’t the best to me during my pregnancy he used to Chuck me out of his parents house knowing I had no where to go.he made me walk home at midnight whilst I was 4 month pregnant in the rain and on the motorway once. He told me to go and stay in a hostel/ on the streets. He used to tell me I would be a rubbish mum and he feels sorry for any child that I have. He would always pack my things and threaten to throw me out. He cheated on me during the pregnancy ( he will not admit it but I found evidence in his phone). He brought stuff for the baby and said that I owed him a big amount of money for half of it, when I asked if I could just know what I was paying for he wouldn’t say and threatened to throw me out if I didn’t just pay him. Fast forwarding to birth of our baby, who is now 5 months, I am struggling to show any emotion towards him, I resent him for making my pregnancy so bad. I find it hard showing him any affection and he always brings this up and says I don’t show him love anymore. He is the best dad to our child and he has even been great to me since my child was born but I can not move forward from how he treated me. Part of me hates him because I feel like he kicked me when I was down and had no family or nothing.
Will this feeling pass or should I cut my losses and move on from him. Let me know your thoughts
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Disowned & Emotional abuse during pregnancy now I don’t know if I love him 5 months PP
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RINC123 · 27/07/2020 00:14
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