Last night we were having a slight argument (nothing major). He grabbed me round the throat, pinned me to the bed and pulled my hair really hard. I yelled at him to let me go and when he did I was so livid I slapped him and told him that no man is ever allowed to do that to me. As a side note I have been a victim of rape in the past so being pinned down particularly affects me. I tried to go to the bathroom but he followed me there and tried to get in and then followed me to the spare room. I was so angry with him that I pushed him and punched him. I repeatedly told him not to touch me and he wouldn't listen...kept trying to hug me and kiss me against my will which only made me more angry.
Today, he is saying that he is the one with the bruises and that it is my fault. He refuses to listen about what he did to me. I said that I was going to call the police on him and he said I wouldn't have a leg to stand on as he is the one with the bruises. I admit that that I did hit him really hard and kick him when he wouldn't let me go. Could I be the one in trouble here?
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Loula84 · 23/07/2020 20:20
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