Hi,
I'm reluctantly back on here because quite frankly I'm embarrassed by my inability to gain strength and follow through kicking my partner out. My life with men has been horrendous and I feel it just be me in a lot of ways. This is my house, he has no legal right to it, he doesn't contribute financially in any way, he did give me a contribution when we first met but with one thing and another he lives here for free. He is controlling, accuses me of chatting to other men and questions me if a male friend on Facebook comments on a post. He's foul mouthed, bad tempered, never smiles and never nice, bad personal habits. He's beyond selfish, calls me names is on sex dating sites all the time and he hides things so he has control such as biscuits and crisps so my sons don't eat them all. My list is endless and I just can't stand him, he has no money and no family to go to and when I've told him to leave he says he will go when he's ready and then tempers have died down and we carry on. I know this is down to me to sort but I am seriously struggling to just do it, I can not describe how intimidating and aggressive he is, you can't sit down and talk and if we argue there's no way of making a point. He constantly sulks and ignores me for days and I don't know why. I'm at my wits end and desperate to get rid of him. 😫
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hazydazy8 · 23/07/2020 18:38
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