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Shall I ask him out on a date?

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somewhereover33 Wed 22-Jul-20 19:52:11

It's a guy who I've had dates with last year.
We still are in contact and message a lot.
I still really like him and I'm jealous when I see him out with others.
Shall I ask him for a drink?

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wannabeadored Wed 22-Jul-20 19:59:29

Why not? Worst he can say is no, better to bite the bullet and know than sit and wonder.

somewhereover33 Wed 22-Jul-20 20:04:44

My friends were like
If he wants,he will make the first move.
I don't want to wait.

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category12 Wed 22-Jul-20 20:06:44

Why haven't there been more dates? If he liked you sufficiently, surely he'd have asked you by now?

DoWahDiddy Wed 22-Jul-20 20:13:08

With come hitherto eyes, say,
"Well, are you gonna ask me out on a date?!"
He asks you out, your friends have their box checked. Job done!

category12 Wed 22-Jul-20 20:16:33

I think that him going out on dates with other people when he knows where you are and how to contact you should tell you something.

clpsmum Wed 22-Jul-20 20:18:13

Definitely! Go for it

BobFleming Wed 22-Jul-20 20:21:20

Surely the fact that you're not dating is a clue that he's not that into you?

popcornlover Wed 22-Jul-20 20:34:45

Go for it, you have to be really forward. Men love confident women!

Sillymee Thu 23-Jul-20 03:58:02

No, He asked you once.. and he’s dating other people so he’s obviously not shy about asking. Stop responding to his messages. Then if he messages you and says hey what’s up.. you can say to be honest I’m still into you and we text
All the time but then you date other people so you obviously have no intention of dating me so feel like I’m wasting my time.
He’s got the best of both worlds this way, dates with other women and then friendly
Familiar easy conversations with you on the side.. X

BitOfFun Thu 23-Jul-20 04:12:14

God no, block him!

StarlightLady Thu 23-Jul-20 06:15:39

Go for it.

Notcoolmum Thu 23-Jul-20 09:12:31

I agree with your friends. If he wanted to date you he would ask. Move on.

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