Has anyone had an ok experience of divorce?(2 Posts)
Abracad Tue 21-Jul-20 21:18:01
Onemansoapopera Tue 21-Jul-20 21:41:24
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide, which can point you to expert advice and support.
To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet.Start using Mumsnet Premium
As far as is possible, of course. I recognise than fundamentally its a difficult thing to do. Can it be amicable with a 50:50 split? Does it always have to be screaming arguments about money?
I had an amicable divorce. Namely because exh is insanely wealthy and I'm not materialistic (and possibly a bit stupid) so instead of a 50:50 split which would have seen him lose millions to me, I moved out of the family house with DD into a semi - which was bought outright for me. I kept my commercial property and car. exh paid child maintenance. I didn't ask for spousal maintenance, nor a cut of his pension and it was all nice and calm and friendly. Until his next wife came along and it all went to shit and they're now getting divorced - for the second time.
Please login first.