Painful separation but a nice realisation today(2 Posts)
Seriouslynotagain Tue 21-Jul-20 17:38:05
noego Tue 21-Jul-20 21:52:29
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My partner of 15 yrs and father to our two children moves out tomorrow. I have been in such pain since i asked him to leave, not sleeping, being very up and down and obsessing over his behaviour. Horrible. But this afternoon I started thinking about what I want and my behaviour. I realised that I walk away from this relationship with integrity and knowledge that there is not one email, message or bank statement that I would have had an issue with him seeing. He cannot say the same. I’m not the dogs bollocks but I’m not him and it feels good.
I also thought about stuff I actually want that I have not been getting and maybe now I have a chance of it.
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