Don't know what to do

[Leanne1191]

Hi everyone, so me and hubby had the date night at the weekend after all the stuff that had been said, it was a lovely evening and was lovely having time together but I don't know if I can get over how much he has hurt me, his reasons for not knowing what he wanted all of a sudden and being unhappy were piss poor! 'Taste of freedom' because he worked away for 11 days and he didn't have me and the kids round him, and the fact that I sent him so shitty texts while he was away because he was being weird with me after day 4 of being away, I've had to ask for some time myself because I just don't think I can get over this, I know some of you may think it's small but the trust has gone, I'll always be worrying whether he's happy or not and if he's going to come or stay away the night again like he did at his aunties (which he did I have proof) he's changed too he's not the man I married last December and it breaks my heart, I just get this cold emotionless man now who don't seem to care, he does say he cares and loves me and wants to work it out but how am I meant to do that without always doubting his feeling and us.... I just need some advice, no grilling please I've been through enough the past two weeks

[Alwaysinpain]

Hi OP, sorry you're feeling like this. I'm not familiar with what's happened, did you have a previous thread?

[Aquamarine1029]

The trust and respect you had for him is gone and it's not coming back. End it.

[Leanne1191]

@Alwaysinpain

Hi OP, sorry you're feeling like this. I'm not familiar with what's happened, did you have a previous thread?

Yeah there's another thread 'husband has said he's not happy'

[Leanne1191]

@Aquamarine1029

The trust and respect you had for him is gone and it's not coming back. End it.

We've been together for 8 years and married 7 months and it was all out of the blue, it's just such a shame....