Same old story that you read a thousand times here. Comes in and out of my life for the last year and a half. Each time he gets back in contact, i lend up hurt again! I have been trying to tell myself to block him for a year now!! So obviously the "honeymoon" period didn't last long in the first place.
Due to our jobs, we would go several weeks without seeing each other. Sometimes we would talk on the phone, other times we would have no contact at all. The time in between contact has grown longer and longer.
He asked me several times to be "official" but I always said no. Knew in my gut I didn't trust him. It just sucks because I did really fancy him! Think that's the only reason I kept things up for so long. Fancied the pants off him, but knew he was bad news.
Anyways, after he got in contact this time, and we resolved absolutely zero issues, I have FINALLY blocked him.
I'm not really looking for advice I guess. Just wanted to write it down somewhere. And maybe if there's anyone else out there trying to build up the courage to do the same, I hope reading this helps!
I don't know how I became the person who couldn't block someone bad for me. I'm a "normal" person in all other areas of my life. I'm well structured, have a good career that requires me to be strong willed etc.
I'm really embarrassed to be honest that I got myself in this situation in the first place. Probably why I'm writing it here instead of telling anyone in real life.
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purplecandle · 21/07/2020 08:41
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