So I’ve been seeing a lovely man I met off tinder for nearly 5 weeks, but we have seen each other a LOT - think 48 hour dates, some weeks it’s worked out I’ve seen him everyday at some point (I was furloughed!) we get on really well and both Tick each other’s boxes.
He asked if I’m seeing anyone else and I’m not he said he isn’t either and hasn’t even spoken to anyone else on tinder since he met me etc.
However, he met a girl a few months ago in India and got stuck out there during lockdown so he lived with her she looked after him etc and he liked her... he’s still in contact with her which he’s been honest about and said he thought he’d cut it off when we become “official” And he’d be 109% committed to me whereas at the moment it’s only talking and she was good to him not like he’s gonna see her etc. Do you think that’s fair enough? Or that he doesn’t like me enough that he hasn’t cut her off already? I’m very insecure so don’t know if I’m being irrational or not! He said he. An see a future with us and just didn’t want to rush anything but it’s deffo heading that way he just didn’t want to put pressure on us... he introduced me to his family the weekend and all his actions show that he really likes me and he said he likes me a lot and would like to see where things go.., am I worrying over nothing?
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SunshineOverStress · 20/07/2020 14:14
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