Hi all,
I am trying to calm down and digest what happened this evening. Me and H had been in a rocky boat for some time but we thought at maybe we could make it work and tried to put the past behind. 2 days ago in his FB list of " people you might know" appeared a name of an old friend, which more than 15 years ago has been my boyfriend.
Me and H have been in a relation since 13 years ago, but he seen this old friend once or twice.
H just flipped and started to act like I was already having an affair with this person because I have give 2 likes on FB on 2 occasions. This evening H decided that he wants to close the joint account and that we split the money in half. I refused, because he used a lot from that account to pay for his car, and to give me what I have put in the last 2 months( around 2k) and he can keep the car.
While talking i have made the trasnfer as i seen tha he gets angrier by the second and refuse to do what he wanted. he then pushed my chair backwards and we ended up un the stairs with his hand on my throat and a screaming toddler between us.
Lucky I have slipted from his hand and run to outside, where my neighbours called the police and took him to the station. Now i am trying to pull myself together and see what needs to be done to start filling for divorce.
Please i need some advice on what i need to do to sort myself and my daughter out.
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Finally it happened: H assaulted me
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WorkingMule · 17/07/2020 23:05
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