I've been with my husband for 6 years now. We have 2 children together and a mortgage. The relationship hasn't been right for a good few months now and we've both admitted that we've thought of ending it a fair few times.
He spends a lot of his time drinking and doing drugs and not a lot of effort or time is put into me or our relationship. He's promised so many times he will cut down and stop and he never has. It causes countless amounts of arguments because we just can't see eye to eye about it.
I guess I'm scared of what will happen if we go our own ways. Where would I live? I don't want to have a set amount of days a week where I don't see my children because they're with their dad but I know that's only fair. It's just easier to stay together but we're both unhappy and we know it. I don't have the courage to end things but I also can't carry on like this
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ker89 · 17/07/2020 19:54
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