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Partner imagines me with other people.

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NewUser123456 · 17/07/2020 16:07

Hi, my partner watches porn and likes to imagine it’s me with other women.
Is this a normal thing?
I’m wondering why she does it, I’ve asked her but she won’t tell me.
Thanks.

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SoulofanAggron · 17/07/2020 16:18

It's just a thing she enjoys/kink. A lot of people have some sort of kink/particular thing they like to watch/imagine.

There's not necessarily any rhyme or reason to it or way they can explain what they like about it.

If she were to try and make you do it in real life it'd be different, depending whether you like/could roll with the idea. But if it's just viewing/fantasy, it's harmless, although it can be unnerving to hear about other's kinks.

I suppose she might've told you in the hope that you'd be up for it though.

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youhave4substitutes · 17/07/2020 16:20

Schools out Grin

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gamerchick · 17/07/2020 16:20

It's highly unlikely she actually wants the real thing though OP.

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funnylittlefloozie · 17/07/2020 16:22

@youhave4substitutes

Schools out Grin

You're not kidding. Post after post like this today.
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