Currently have an interim child arrangement order, exp was emotionally abusive to dd in the past, she is 18 months, so contact is currently supported. For during the past 5 contacts dd has come back dehydrated, this has been raised with ex by myself and solicitor. The last contact dd came back dehydrated and she had completely soaked through her clothes with sweat as ex hadn't checked her temperature as the day got warmer. Along with this dd now won't get into a car as she thinks I'm taking her to see ex and gets upset when we go to the park as this is where we meet him for handover's.
Once again I'm going to have to raise this with exp, I've already spoken to dd gp and health advisor. But how to I approach it again without being, well basically going on the attack, I just want him to sort himself out so dd isn't so distressed. Contact started 2 months ago and especially as the duration of contact gets longer I want to make sure she is ok.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
How would you approach this subject..
15 replies
Whateverittakes18 · 14/07/2020 22:35
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.