Hi all.
So i was dating a bloke last year, divorced with two kids whom I never met. We moved in together ( yeah i know I cringe now at how quick it was.)
In April he finished with me saying his two children werent coping with the break up of his marriage. The oldest one was self harming and they both needed help. He said he needed to focus all of his attention on them.
Although I was heartbroken I understood that his children needed his full attention. So I left. He messaged me a couple of times but then it fizzled out.
I have just found out that what he told me was in fact a complete lie. There was nothing wrong with his kids. He wanted his ex wife back. But she had met someone else, although she isnt in that relationship now.
I feel like such an idiot.
Taken in by what I feel is a Conmam.
Im so angry at him, myself. He gave me the usual flannel "I love you" "I want a family with you" the whole nine yards. And I fell for it.
I emailed him before I found out saying I understood why he ended things and I wished him and his family all the best. Now I wish I hadnt bothered. He never replied of course.
How do I get past this? I have so many different emtions whizzing through me. Please be kind.
I feel like a complete fool already
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SissyLongStockings · 13/07/2020 03:05
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