This might not mean much to anyone but to me I feel strong and in control for once....
I have another thread that outlines some of things that occurred in my relationship with my sons dad, cheating being one of them. I told him to leave my home about maybe 3 or so weeks ago now, I cant really remember, so many times before I've let him back slowly...today however 😊 I cooked a roast and as he was coming by to see our son anyway I set a plate aside for him (no intentions just because why wouldnt i) he came by got the food, picked up some bits, he then asked if he could stay the night on the sofa as he apparently has nowhere to stay.....I said no!
Usually something like me cooking for him is like he has got his foot slightly back in the door and I have also never refused him to stay here. Dont get me wrong I felt a bit bad because it's just not in me to see someone down but I am feeling so in control, and he knows it because he was a bit moody when he left.
I went for the whole no contact thing but it was pretty impossible when we share a child, I know this sounds pathetic to some but I have literally struggled with the back and forth and all the toxic stuff that has come with it and I sort of cant believe it myself that I said no to him.
I have no idea if he was talking out of his arse about having nowhere to stay, but going by the amount of girls he was cheating on me with, it's unlikely at least one of them cant offer him a place to stay.
Anyways I just needed to get that off my chest....😊
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MyLifeWTF · 12/07/2020 22:04
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