Our 20 year-old daughter is perpetually messy and it's causing more and more horrible fights between her, my husband and I. Husband is overly aggressive to the point of being verbally abusive so I try to calm things and he feels I'm taking her side. I know it's in part my fault as I've always tidied up after her (when she was younger I wasn't working and I like things tidy so was happy to let her away with being messy) but now recognise I've encourgaed her to be disrespectful of both me and my husband even though she's genuinely a good and caring person and respectful in other people's homes. Now with Covid and all 3 of us being home it's reached critical point and all 3 of us feel victims and defensive to the point of being unable to discuss in a reasonable manner. Can anyone recommend a family therapist who could help?
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