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The last 4 years of my life has been a lie

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Namechangex10000 · 11/07/2020 19:24

I’ve never been morendevastated and I know he doesn’t deserve my tears but I don’t think I can face the reality of what my life will be now. I feel sick. How is it possible to be so incredibly blind? Sad

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AnneLovesGilbert · 11/07/2020 19:26

Do you want to talk about what’s happened?

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KatherineJaneway · 11/07/2020 19:28

Sorry you are in pain Flowers

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MarkRuffaloCrumble · 11/07/2020 19:30

The lies are the worst thing. Sad. Whatever your DP has done, they were clearly intent on covering it up, so it’s not on you for being blind, it’s on them for being a liar. Flowers

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DirtyDeeds · 11/07/2020 19:31

U ok hun?

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Bunnymumy · 11/07/2020 19:31

Assuming the rotter has been having an affair?

Sorry you are going through this.

I know it seems awful atm and might be hard for a while but you'll be better without a lying sack of shit in your life. At least, in the longterm.

Try to focus on the practical stuff rn and dont beat yourself up too much, many a wise woman has been a fool for a man. People cant read minds afterall. What matters is what you do now that you know.

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PurrBox · 11/07/2020 21:21

Do you want to talk about what happened?

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