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The last 4 years of my life has been a lie

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Namechangex10000 Sat 11-Jul-20 19:24:45

I’ve never been morendevastated and I know he doesn’t deserve my tears but I don’t think I can face the reality of what my life will be now. I feel sick. How is it possible to be so incredibly blind? sad

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AnneLovesGilbert Sat 11-Jul-20 19:26:26

Do you want to talk about what’s happened?

KatherineJaneway Sat 11-Jul-20 19:28:21

Sorry you are in pain flowers

MarkRuffaloCrumble Sat 11-Jul-20 19:30:13

The lies are the worst thing. sad. Whatever your DP has done, they were clearly intent on covering it up, so it’s not on you for being blind, it’s on them for being a liar. flowers

DirtyDeeds Sat 11-Jul-20 19:31:01

U ok hun?

Bunnymumy Sat 11-Jul-20 19:31:34

Assuming the rotter has been having an affair?

Sorry you are going through this.

I know it seems awful atm and might be hard for a while but you'll be better without a lying sack of shit in your life. At least, in the longterm.

Try to focus on the practical stuff rn and dont beat yourself up too much, many a wise woman has been a fool for a man. People cant read minds afterall. What matters is what you do now that you know.

PurrBox Sat 11-Jul-20 21:21:14

Do you want to talk about what happened?

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