Now he wants nothing to do with me. I thought I was doing the right thing because he was telling me of his plans to propose to her and I couldn't let him continue seeing her without him knowing the truth. We'd been best friends for years and now he has shut me out of his life, telling me how I was always jealous of her. All of our mutual friends have now turned against me too.
I had proof she was cheating for months (messages, photos, the whole lot) but he didn't want to see any of it.
Apparently he did confront her after I told him. She ended up convincing him that she only "emotionally cheated" and she gave him this sob story about how she was depressed she didn't mean it and now he's forgiven her and they're carrying on as normal.
They've all painted me out to be this villain, saying that I was wrong for saying anything. It sucks because she doesn't really love him (she said so in the messages) and he's going to end up hurt. But I've lost him and all my friends now.
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jasminepeony · 08/07/2020 14:32
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