Low and behold with restrictions being lowered my partner and his friends want to get together next week for a 'late one' i.e. He goes out at 6pm and arrives home at 3/4am. He then ruins the next day by being tired and grumpy, ultimately having hour long naps so we can't do anything together.
They don't go out drinking but sit in and play on the PlayStation. Of course I want him to see his friends but I just can't comprehend why it has to be til the early hours of the morning? We have a young child who will be disturbed by him coming in so late and I won't be able to sleep well just waiting for him to come through the door because he never sticks to a time he says he'll be home at.
When I ask why it has to be til 3am he says 'that's just the way it is' - why?! Grown men with families can't possibly meet up at 5pm and come home at 11pm?
I'm more than fine with being told I'm being unreasonable as this isn't a regular occurance I just don't understand why these get togethers can't happen during the day
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Why do men have to stay out til the early hours to have a good time with their friends?
Lsquiggles · 04/07/2020 15:47
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